It's time to look like a goddess

♡♡♡♡♡♡HELLO BEAUTYS!♡♡♡♡♡♡ Since Valentine's Day is around the corner and I know people are trying to figure out what to wear, where to go or what to get for your Valentine.(So you know your girl had to help you out)  I decided to look up a couple of outfits to give you a few ideas of what you would like to wear. The outfits I found are for all occasions.  I really do love valentine's day. I like seeing happy couples or just people doing stuff for the ones they love. And it gives me ideas of what I would like to do. Plus, who doesn't like getting all dolled up and going out.  Even though this Valentine's day I don't have nothing plan but I will be buying a dress just in case. If you don't know what to do for valentine's day for your significant other, a blind date, or a friends. I will have another post of ideas coming up this week.  No let's talk about FASHION! So I pick out a few things from dangerously sexy to conservative cute depending on how you want to look on that. Since there are a lot of outfits I'm going to talk about my favorite out of the bunch and what I would style them with. :)
I'm soooooo obsessed with this Dress. (Link.to the dress) If I was going out for Valentine's day this will be my dress. I'm in love with this color (the dress does come in black) and it also has the design on the front. I feel like this color would look amazing on all skin tones.  I would dress it up with a nude or burgundy longline blazer with cheetah print pumps or flats. (Whatever works best for you)
 This jumpsuit (link for the jumpsuit )  I feel like is perfect for a date with you significant other or even a blind date. I would wear this jumpsuit with a black and white or  all black fur jacket. I would pair it up with a red or black pair of strappy heels with a red lips.  BANG! you will look popping! This outfit is for the ladies that wants to be sexy but conservative.
 I know some people are not going to do evening date for valentine. This Dress (link to the dress) is for a afternoon brunch or if you are going to a wine tasting; jazz playing atmosphere. If you have notice I'm all about color yes you may be want that black dress because  it looks "slimming" but you can find a color dress that looks amazing on you too.  Okay now let's talk about the dress. I would do a off-white strappy heels or off white pointy flat. I would have a gold belt and then I'll add gold dangle earrings.  I would do a neutral pink lip.
I know there's going to be someone who would like to do all black. Even though I'm not a all black person I definitely would rock this. The top (link of the top)on the left with the  leather pants (link of pants) is definitely a must in my book. I would wear the top and pants with lace up heels or flats. Depending onwhatlookyougoingfor you can also wear a black fur vest.  You gotta like GOTTA DO A RED LIP LIKE IT'S SO CLASSIC!!!!However if you don't want to do red you can do any color you like.  Instead of jewelry do a gold or silver clutch depending on what color you would do your lip.

 Once you get to know my style more you will recognize  I'm a huge fan of print. I just had to add at least one thing that was print on this list.  This dress (link of the dress) is pretty and very versatile. I would wear red pointed heels or flats and gold stud THAT'S IT! And than Work HUNNTY WORK!! I know so people are afraid to wear print because you have this crazy mindset in your head that it makes you look bigger which is ridiculous. This is something I will be telling you a lot is not what you wear but how you wear  it hunny!!! And I know you can wear  it.

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This section is the pics of more ideas and links of pictures next to them.

black top

 red pants

black romper

wrap dress pink

Cape dress. 

Burgundy dress

strapless dress

red deep v dress

lace up dress

sweetheart jumpsuit

pattern dressred dress

nude dresswrap dress

         
                                                       

Going Through Thecurvezoflife

 

First and foremost I would like to say happy New year to everyone. I really hope you enjoyed your holidays. I know I did but I'll talk about that more in detail later on. I know it's been a long time since I post on my blog. I've been going through a lot of changes and I needed time to get myself together. I really don't want to get into too much details of what been going on because it's the past and I want to move forward. However there are a few things I would love to share with you.  No mater what you are going through in life always think positive. When you think positive there would be more positive impact  in your life. Try to think of pain as grow and the pain that your are going through is only going to make you stronger. I know it's easier said than done but when you keep repeating it to yourself you will start believing it. I know people think crying is a sign of weakness but I disagree. Crying is good for you. You need to release the stress from your body. Seriously it's okay to cry. Shoot if I have to cry I will. Communication is very important. As life goes on I realize how important it is. A lot of people like to keep things inside but it will hurt you in a long run. (This is something that I have to work on but I'm processing which is good.) You will go crazy if you don't talk to some one. Even if it's not the person your having the problems with you should still talk to someone. It was one time I call my friend and I told her I need to talk to someone because I felt like I was going crazy. That next day we met up, she listened to me and help me figure things out. There was another scenario when I was having problems at home, I called my best friend and cried. She stayed on the phone with me and helped me stop crying. When you surround yourself with people that support you and wants to see you happy. They will help you to get thorough all thecurvezoflife. Another thing I do is I go to a quiet dark place and listen to music.  I like to listen to something that's smoothing and soft.  I listen to a lot of Alicia Keys and Aaliyah. That's my peace music when I wanna listen to music it calms my thoughts and get me in the zone.  The biggest thing I wanna tell you is when things don't go your way or don't go how you want it to go. Adjust your plan and move forward. Never stop. Seriously NEVER STOP ALWAYS KEEP MOVING FORWARD. Okay okay enough of my life learn lessons lecture. (Wow try to say that 3 times lol) My family member do it to me all the time. I don't pay it no mind through lol.  All I say is mmmhhmm yeah, sure, I understand. My cousin  understands the struggle.

  Now let's talk about new years weekend. My body is still recovering from the weekend. I haven't been out partying since my freshman year in college which was 3 years old. The reason why I'm always working  on weekends. Also, I had low self-esteem about myself. In my mind I thought everybody was talking about me even when people thought probably wasn't. I was scared. I was at the point where I was concern what people thought about me. As ive matured and I was going through life. I opened my eyes and realized I don't care about what people think or say about me. I wanted to make this new years weekend special. One of my new years resolution is to become more social, go out more and start meeting new people. What I mean by going out more is experiencing different things and not being in the house all the time.  Therefore, I knew that I wanted to go out new years eve but I really wasn't planning to go out the whole weekend. But it just happened. The whole weekend I wanted to wear purple to represent my great-grandmother since that was her favorite color. (She's the love of my life) Also, new years weekend it was so much going on I had to take the picture myself in my room. I just blurred out my background.
   On new years eve I went to trilogy which is location in Philly . It's a three story club that has three different  themes on each floor. I really would recommend to go here I had so much fun. As far as my outfit my dress I got from asos. When I saw this dress I fell in love and HAD to have it. When the dress came to my house I tried it on and  it was too short I was soo upset. I kept looking online for a different outfit and nothing compared to what I had. So i decided to wear a black skirt under my dress and it work out perfectly.  My make up was done by conturedelegance she on instagram. On my way to her house I got lost. (if you knew me that's no suprised  I'm always getting lost ) When I finally figure out where she lived. It was amazing feeling getting my makeup done and the atmosphere is great. She is soo friendly.

Dress

                           Shoes

  On new years day I went out to a club I had fun. My fur jacket from simplybe.  I brought it last year never wore it so I decided to wear it with a jumpsuit I brought from fashion to figure.  It was on sale for 10 which Is a great thing for me. I wore flats that day because the heels I wore NYE hurt my feet.

Fur Jacket

Jumpsuit ( similar )

Jewelry (similar)

  On Saturday I  did the most craziest thing I went to a club by myself I was scared at first because I didn't want nothing to happen while I'm by myself but I had a gut feeling that I will be okay. Before I really decided if was really going to go I asked my little sister if it was a smart idea and she said yes. I'm so happy I did because it turn out was amazing. I went to woodys and after I went to voyeur. The atmosphere was fun I didn't felt like an outcast (because I was by myself) and everybody were just having fun. I would suggest everybody to do it. You can try something new and to start having vva social life. Which I'm trying to accomplish. As far as my outfit I brought this from forever 21. When I first saw it was first debatng if  I should get it or not. I asked my friends that I worked with if I should get it.  Some of my unfashionable friends said that's it looks like barney. My fashionable ones said it was cute so I decided to buy it. I wanted to pair it up with something different. I thought a cheetah print skirt and my duster I wore that because I had to go to work before I went out.

Shoes

Shirt

Duster

Skirt